Today, I reached school around 6.30am and last night was a sleepless night since I know that u cried and I dunno wat is the real reason behind it, makes me worries sick with a broken heart.

What I have to share this morning is that in relationship, one always need to know and protect the weak spot from being discovered by the other person too early since we never know that the partner that are with us, are they really the good and kind people that we seems to know or not.

If your partner, whether is a he or she, knows wat is your weak spot, he or she will keep on make use of the weak spot to make you stay next to him or her. They can become someone who just do things without thinking about the consequences and without responsibility since they know that, when things goes wrong between both of the person, all he or she needs to do is to make use of your weak spot and make you feel bad about leaving him or her alone.

Someone who makes you cry throughout the relationship is never the people you are going to have future with since you cry is cause by the him or her making use of your weak spot to do certain things that he or she wants you to do or make decision that they want you to make but sometimes is really not the decisions or things that you really want to do or make. Overall, if one still hangs on with the relationship for a long time or even until marriage, do u want your marriage life to be full of tears and heart breaking moments just to so call forgive the person u are with? I really dunno.

Is true that a decision need to be made in a relationship as soon as possible to avoid hurting people that are involved in it, but when the decision making process has a factor that certain people is making use of certain people and cause influence on the thinking and moods, the decision made is never the decision that you yourself are sure and want it yourself since all your moods and thinking is being totally made use of.

Overall, all of this is what a psychologist used to tell me about defending myself in a relationship to avoid being make use and feel sad by the wrong people since last time and I guess is quite true for me. Is just something i would like to share and i hope you dun think too much about it. Anyway, please try your best to be happy and take good care of yourself.